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Countertop Review

This time last year I was packing up our house to prepare for our down-to-the-studs renovation in our kitchen, family room, and master bath as well as the addition of a screened porch. The family room wasn't originally part of the plan, but that's a post for another time. The kitchen was where I really had to plan and scheme, and, yes even fret, to stay in our footprint and budget and to get the function and look I wanted. I love a challenge like this, though, so despite some occasional frustration with my client (aka me! ), I enjoyed the process. A key "want" of mine was honed marble countertops. There are dozens--maybe hundreds--of blog posts, articles, and showroom sites that compare various types of countertop materials and their pros and cons. I read most of them and took notes from a lot of them in the months leading up to our start date. One of the most helpful things was visiting a sweet friend's kitchen, where I was able to ask questions about cleaning, a

Tennessee Waltz

A little more than a month ago, the Mister and I took Little and Middle to the Great State of Tennessee to visit my parents.  Although it was early April, the weather turned chilly and drear, but nevertheless we had a grand time.
While the children enjoyed a sound spoiling by their grandparents (sleeping in, biscuits and gravy for breakfast), the Mister and I met my longtime friend, M, for coffee.  M and I met in high school, and we have been friends ever since.  IMG_3719
She is my straight-talking friend who can tell me I’m being whiny or unreasonable, and I know she’s telling me the truth.  She will also tell me when I’m being taken advantage of or when I’m not having enough fun.  She will tell me if a skirt is too short or a lipstick is too bright—before I buy it!  I tell her all the same stuff when necessary, and—best of all—we make each other laugh uproariously!  We used to talk almost daily; now sometimes weeks go by, but we always pick right back up.  After a long coffee break with M that turned into lunch (thanks to the Mister for being so understanding!), the Mister and I headed south on I-75 to visit some friends and explore Chattanooga.IMG_3729Pardon me, boys . . . Yes, it’s the Chattanooga Choo-Choo.  This iconic sign glows high above Chattanooga’s lovely downtown.  The Chattanooga train depot, or terminal, is today a part of the Historic Hotels of America.  Guests may stay in a standard room in the historic terminal or in one of 48 refurbished Victorian train cars.
Not far from the Choo-Choo is the beautiful and winding Tennessee River.  Although Chattanooga was once a rather dirty, industrial town, city leaders along with corporate partners and private citizens have created one of the most attractive downtowns in the South, with beautiful green spaces, a thriving retail and dining district, and a fun and funky arts district, referred to as the North Shore.IMG_3721IMG_3722 A huge walking bridge spans the river, connecting the retail and dining district with the arts district, which is nearby the noted Hunter Museum of Art.IMG_3723 Near the bridge, the Delta Queen docks between dinner and sightseeing cruises.IMG_3727The Mister and I strolled a bit and even visited a large “antique” mall, which sadly was a huge disappointment, but we did find Chattanooga’s downtown grocery GreenLife, which provided a good place for a cup of coffee and a cookie.35769_135874326440606_135870133107692_278654_7794764_nShortly after, we met our friends, who like us, own a fair trade Go Fish store.   After checking out their store and comparing notes on merchandising ideas, staff incentives, and other more boring business stuff, we walked to the nearby Urban Spoon, where we enjoyed a delicious Southern supper with a modern twist.170699_186046888090016_135870133107692_592376_5969338_o   Not on the menu, but prepared just for us that evening, was the chef’s invention of a Moon Pie banana pudding.  Turns out that Chattanooga is the home of the classic Southern cookie, known as the Moon Pie.  Although, I’m not its biggest fan, it made a wonderful substitution for the traditional Nilla Wafer.    The Mister and I waddled to the car to head back to my folks’.
The next day, we went with my dad to visit my aunt and uncle who have recently moved to an apartment at a lovely retirement community.  IMG_3731Although, it is an adjustment to leave their home and neighborhood, they are enjoying the views of the Great Smoky Mountains as well as the numerous activities available at their home.IMG_3738 We spent the afternoon walking in the woods behind my parents’ house.  Although the dogwoods had already shed their blossoms, it was still beautiful to be amid all the brilliant spring green of the Tennessee woods.
IMG_3741The property we walked has been in my father’s family since the 1830s, and it is one of his great joys to share the history he knows and the memories he has of the area.  IMG_3746He is both sentimental and practical about his woods,  as seen from his woodshed.IMG_3733He’s been selectively cutting timber to heat their house for more than 20 years, mostly hickory with the occasional oak.IMG_3735
If you are very lucky, you may receive a bundle of  cured hardwood kindling for a Christmas present.IMG_3736 An organized man, which he attributes to his time at sea with the U.S. Navy, he marks the wood as to the date the tree was cut and follows the first-in, first-out method for burning.
Although we visited in April, I was truly glad that it was still chilly enough for crackling fire that evening.  And biscuits and gravy for breakfast.
Thanks, Mom and Dad.
Do you visit family often?


  1. Good morning, Paula. While I enjoy every post, this one is added to my favorites. Love,Donna

  2. Looks like a great trip! You always find the most interesting way of seeing the world. I love reading your posts and falling in love with the places you visit :O)

  3. Live friends like M. My BFF is the same way... And I would have her any other! And what a wonderful visit you were so lucky to have with your family. Don't you love family time?

  4. I'm a regular visitor, too, because I enjoy your posts so much. This one was extra special because I live in Tennessee and could certainly relate. I really enjoyed the family life portions, especially about your dad's property and the views of his woodshed.


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